No
matter how large your drawing-room may be, keep it intimate in spirit. There
should be a dozen conversation centers in a large room.There should be one or
more sofas, with comfortable chairs pulled up beside them. No one chair should
be isolated, for some bashful person who doesn’t talk well anyway is sure to
take the most remote chair and make herself miserable. I have seen a shy young
woman completely changed because she happened to sit upon a certain deep
cushion sofa of rose-colored damask. Whether it was the rose color, or the
enforced relaxation the sofa induced, or the proximity of some very charming
people in comfortable chairs beside her, or all of these things – I don’t know!
But she found herself. She found herself gay and happy and unafraid. I am sure
her personality flowered from that hour on. If she had been left to herself she
would have taken a stiff chair in a far corner, and she would have been
miserable and self-conscious. I believe most firmly in the magic power of
inanimate objects!
The House in Good Taste - Elsie de Wolfe